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I can support you in my practice or online. In all cases personally and individually.

Monday to Friday, from 09:00 to 19:00

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RESOLVING SEXUAL PROBLEMS

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Sexual dissatisfaction can radically and negatively affect the partnership. When sexual needs are very different and not communicated, there is a high potential for conflict. That’s why we talk about it!

It is difficult to find a new beginning, especially when the topic of sex sometimes disappears from life alltogether after a long relationship. It is important to get to know one another and to get involved with the other one, because sharing one’s own desire with one’s partner leads to a stable and enjoyable relationship.

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My support

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Sexual problems can have very different causes. Possible is a disturbed sexuality of the man, lack of libido in the woman or that there are other serious problems in the relationship. In long-term relationships, the partners are often so familiar with each other that they no longer feel any sexual attraction. Sometimes one partner has withdrawn from the relationship because trust in the other has been lost or there is deep rooted and hidden frustration about the other’s behaviour.

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Couple therapy supporting your relationship

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The therapy in my practice in Mainz is based on the cause of the sexual problem. I provide you with approaches to reawaken sexual interest. For deeper conflicts, I offer you the possibility of psychotherapy or couple therapy. This can be the key to learning to trust your partner again and feel secure with them. The door is then open for sexuality to naturally return on its own.

If the partners have different levels of libido, it is important to respect this fact. The sexually more active part must learn not to put pressure on the other, as this increases the sexual problems. The goal is to feel sexual pleasure together again. 

Contact us

Contact me now by e-mail or phone and tell me about your concerns. If I am not available, I will get back to you immediately and we can schedule an appointment for an initial consultation. As self paying clients, you can decide on the frequency and timing of the sessions.

Initial consultation

In an initial consultation, both partners have time to describe their situation. Most couples take 6-10 sessions to arrive at new agreements Initially, we may meet every 2 weeks. Then the intervals can be longer. Many couples return to me for a couple of sessions year after year.

Each session lasts 60-90 minutes, during which we take time to create a new experience.

Couples therapy

Couple therapy is based mainly on systemic humanistic and family therapy theories. I always allow my strong intuition to adapt to your individual needs. 

An in-depth psychological approach is especially important with trauma-sensitive couples.

I will help you to overcome fears and obstacles in your life.

I am

Susan Mir.

alternative practitioner for psychotherapy

My expertise is to help you cope with personal problems, psychological load, stress and burnout.

My wish is to harmonise your feelings with your thinking and the actions you take.

My work applies a solution focused approach.

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Your questions about sexual problems

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Studies show that there is no maximum age for sexual desire, but it decreases with age. 60 percent of men between the ages of 65 and 74 are sexually active, but only less than 40 percent of women. According to experts, this is not due to a decrease in desire, but to a lack of opportunity. Many women of this age are widowed or divorced and are not looking for a new partner.

Don’t just accept an unhappy sex life. If there are physical causes, consult a doctor. In the case of psychological causes, seek the help of a couple therapist or sex therapist.

Sexual dysfunction can have physical or psychological causes and results in the sexual act not being realised. A physical problem often leads to fear of failure, which in turn triggers a dysfunction. Therefore, in many cases, the problem persists once the physical cause has been addressed.

What my clients have expressed

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