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Practice for solution-focused
therapy and coaching in Mainz

This is about you.

If you feel that now is a good time to make a change, I look forward to hearing from you soon.

I accompany you in difficult phases of life and support you in finding inner peace, acceptance and new ways of solving problems.

Appointment requests

I can support you in my practice or online. In all cases personally and individually.

Monday to Friday, from 09:00 to 19:00

Appointment requests

There are currently some appointments available at short notice. Please feel free to get in touch with me, with no obligation.

I can support you in my practice or online. In all cases personally and individually.

Telephone: 0177 879 0846 | Mo–Fr, 09:00–19:00 Uhr

I will help you to overcome fears and obstacles in your life.

I am

Susan Mir.

alternative practitioner for psychotherapy

My ability to listen with empathy and without judgment allows me to understand and connect with people on a deeply personal level. With sensitivity and intuition, I can often recognise what lies behind someone’s concerns, helping them feel understood, accepted and comfortable opening up.

My multicultural background and experience of living in different countries have enriched this understanding and taught me to appreciate the different ways people experience life’s challenges.

As a qualified alternative practitioner for psychotherapy, with a background in psychology and communication sciences, I combine these personal qualities with a solution-focused therapeutic approach.

My practice in Mainz offers a warm, welcoming and confidential environment where you can speak openly about even the most personal and difficult matters, knowing that you will be listened to with understanding and without judgment.

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Susan Mir

SATURDAY INTENSIVE SESSIONS

Finding time for yourself or your relationship can be difficult when everyday life is filled with work and other commitments.

My exclusive three-hour Saturday sessions offer individuals and couples the opportunity to address personal challenges, relationship difficulties or important decisions without the pressure of weekday appointments.

In a calm and confidential setting, we take the time to understand your situation, identify what really matters and work together towards practical, lasting solutions.

A single intensive session can help you make meaningful progress on issues that might otherwise require several shorter appointments.

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SOLUTION-FOCUSED PSYCHOTHERAPY

Talking about problems creates problems, talking about solutions creates solutions

(Steve de Shazer)

Analysis and awareness of the origin of problems and investigation of causes makes al lot of sense – but our target must be to look forward; our main goal is the solution. It is always about developing the possibilities that are already stored within in each person. With this basic attitude I respond to the individual needs of each client. Problems are part of human life. The fact that there are solutions makes life bearable again.

Even a small adjustment can create significant impulses in a person to allow reorganisation of their thought process. The possibility of implementing self-control and influencing one’s own environment are important objectives in psychotherapy as well as in coaching.

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couples therapy

Understanding each other creates opportunities.

Relationship difficulties arise when partners no longer feel understood, appreciated or heard. Arguments about everyday matters can conceal deeper feelings, unmet needs and patterns of communication that have developed over time.

In a neutral and calm environment, I help couples understand each other’s perspectives, recognise what lies beneath their conflicts and find new ways of communicating. Whether you wish to strengthen your relationship, overcome a crisis or consider separation, we work together towards greater clarity and mutual understanding.

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LIFE COACHING

Inspiring moments create courage for change.

Analysis and awareness of the origin of problems and investigation of causes makes al lot of sense – but our target must be to look forward; our main goal is the solution. It is always about developing the possibilities that are already stored within in each person. With this basic attitude I respond to the individual needs of each client. Problems are part of human life. The fact that there are solutions makes life bearable again.

Even a small adjustment can create significant impulses in a person to allow reorganisation of their thought process. The possibility of implementing self-control and influencing one’s own environment are important objectives in psychotherapy as well as in coaching.

Find out more about Coaching →

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Frequently Asked Questions

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My practice is tailored for individuals and couples—who are seeking support during challenging phases of life. I offer specialized guidance for professional burnout, crisis management, anxiety, depressive moods, as well as trauma-informed couples therapy and psychosocial counseling for those dealing with an unfulfilled desire to have children.
 
Solution-focused brief therapy actively focuses on your personal resources, strengths, and wishes for the future, rather than dwelling on past problem causes. Guided by the philosophy “Talking about problems creates problems, talking about solutions creates solutions,” I work together with you in manageable steps to develop concrete, practical changes for your life or your relationship.
 
As an alternative practitioner for psychotherapy (licensed under the German Heilpraktikergesetz), I operate independently of statutory public health insurance companies and provide therapeutic support exclusively for self-paying clients. Unlike psychiatrists, I do not prescribe medication, and compared to insurance-bound therapists, you benefit from total confidentiality. There are no bureaucratic application procedures involved.
 
Billing as a self-paying client guarantees you absolute privacy and maximum flexibility without agonizingly long waiting times. Because no data or diagnoses are transmitted to statutory health insurance companies or providers, your therapy leaves no traces in your medical records—this is critically important before applying for occupational disability (Berufsunfähigkeit), life insurance, private health insurance, or entering public civil service (Verbeamtung).
 
Coaching focuses on personal or professional development, helping you clarify goals, make decisions and overcome obstacles in your everyday life. Psychotherapy, on the other hand, addresses psychological difficulties and emotional distress that may require therapeutic support. Both approaches can involve understanding patterns of thought and behaviour, but their objectives are different. As a qualified alternative practitioner for psychotherapy who also offers coaching, I can help you explore which approach may be appropriate for your individual situation.
Couples therapy is often most effective when both partners are willing to participate, but it is not unusual for one partner to be more hesitant than the other. Individual counselling can also help you understand relationship difficulties, recognise patterns of communication and explore what you can change yourself. My approach is not about assigning blame or deciding who is right, but about developing understanding and finding a constructive way forward.

Yes. Couples therapy is not necessarily about saving a relationship at all costs. Sometimes it is about understanding whether there is still a future together. In a neutral and non-judgmental environment, I help both partners express their feelings, understand each other’s perspectives and gain clarity about what they really want. Whether you decide to rebuild your relationship or separate, my aim is to help you find a way forward based on mutual understanding and respect.

Thanks to my unique, custom-developed digital appointment system, I am usually able to offer you a confidential initial consultation very promptly—typically within the next 7 to 14 days. A special feature of my practice is the integrated waiting list queue: if all slots are currently fully booked, you can place yourself on this smart list to be automatically notified of short-notice cancellations, sometimes giving you the opportunity to get an appointment the very next day. You can view all available slots for individual therapy, coaching, or couples counseling in Mainz directly online on my website and reserve your preferred time flexibly.

 

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